
More than two decades ago, during my tenure as a middle-level officer at the Ministry of External Affairs, I found myself engaged in a candid exchange with a Pakistani diplomat. In a moment of bluntness, I expressed a sentiment that has lingered in my mind ever since: “Tum sabki ghulami karne ko tayyar ho lakin hamse dosti karne ko nahi” (You are willing to be a slave to everyone but remain unwilling...